Compassion Above Love

Clear thinking about the choices
and relationships that matter.

Practical, forward-looking 1:1 coaching. You build the skills to see your patterns clearly and move toward what you actually want.

Life & relationship coaching, practical and on your side. It's not therapy and not a substitute for it, though it works well alongside therapy. In crisis or danger, reach 988, 911, or the DV Hotline 1‑800‑799‑7233 (text START to 88788) first.
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Certified in attachment theory

How it works

Low-pressure by design. You'll know after one call whether it's a fit, and you leave with something useful either way.

1

A free fit call

20 minutes to hear what you're navigating, see if coaching is the right tool, and give you one concrete next step. No pressure, no pitch.

2

First Steps

A focused four-session package, usually about six weeks. We start from what's actually in your way, with real practice between sessions and forward motion you can feel.

3

Keep going

If it's working and you want to continue, we set an ongoing rhythm that fits your life. Only as long as it's genuinely useful to you.

How the work actually helps

Grounded in established behavior-change and attachment research. It's practical, built around what you actually do rather than just how you talk about it.

Start with the goal

We get clear on what you actually want, concrete enough that you'd know it when you saw it. Everything works toward that.

Work from what you do

Change comes from behavior, not just insight. We find the one place you're snagged and try small, doable steps between sessions, then see what moves.

Build something that lasts

The point isn't to need me. You leave steadier, with a way of steering your own choices that holds after we're done.

What it costs

No promos, no pressure. Start with me and your rate is locked as a founding client.

Free · fit call

20 minutes, no cost, and you leave with one concrete next step either way.

$125 · session

Single sessions, whenever that's the right fit.

$450 · First Steps

The four-session start, paid up front. A little under four singles.

Is this for you?

Coaching does real, valuable work, and it knows its limits. Being honest about both is part of doing it well.

A good fit if you want to…

  • Get clear on priorities when everything feels tangled
  • Change a pattern you keep repeating
  • Find steadier footing in a hard relationship, with a clear-eyed ally on your side
  • Move through a transition or a hard decision
  • Rebuild steadier, more forward-looking habits of mind

First, let's make sure you're supported

  • In crisis or immediate danger? Reach 988, or 911 / the DV Hotline 1‑800‑799‑7233 (text START to 88788) first. Then the door's open.
  • Already in therapy? Welcome. Coaching alongside it is common and good.
  • Need clinical care or a diagnosis? That's a licensed professional's role; I'll gladly help you find one, and we can still work the forward pieces together.

Needing therapy doesn't mean coaching can't help; the two work well side by side.

How I work, by hand. The coaching is me: a real person giving you real attention. Your details, and any anonymized version of your story, never go into an AI tool, and the guidance you get is mine, not something an AI generated or boosted. The free daily companion is a tool I hand you for your own use; it's optional, and using it has no bearing on our work together.
What I don't do, plainly. You're welcome to bring your history into the room; we just won't camp there. The work is the skills for what's next, not reworking the past. I don't diagnose, treat, or prescribe (that includes diets and supplements). If something you're carrying needs a therapist or a doctor, I'll help you find the right one, and we can keep working the forward pieces alongside their care. And because coaching isn't legally privileged the way therapy is, I keep only minimal, coded notes, never the substance of what we discuss.

Start with a free fit call

Twenty minutes, no cost, no pressure. If it's a fit, we'll take a first step together. If it's not, you'll still leave with something useful.

Book your free fit call